THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE BACK
 
MODIFYING   FORCED   CHOICE
 
 
 
   
   
   
   
 
 
   
THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE
THAT IS
  YOU SHOULD
TELL ME
THIS BELONGS TO
DO YOU LOVE		 “GOOD”
“THINK”
“YES”
“YOU”
“ME”		  OR
 OR
 OR
 OR
 OR		 “BAD”
"FEEL”
“NO”
“ME”
“THEM”
 MOST  OF US  HAVE  BEEN  RAISED  WITH  THE  “FORCED
 CHOICE” OF ONLY 2 CHOICES -- BY  PARENTS, TEACHERS,
 SIBLINGS,  LOVERS, THERAPISTS.  VERY  OFTEN NEITHER
 CHOICE  IS  USEFUL  AS  PRESENTED,  AND  ALLOWS  US
 ONLY THE UNPLEASANTNESS OF A DOUBLE-BIND CHOICE
FUNCTIONAL ISSUES USUALLY HAVE MORE THAN
                                          2 OK   OPTIONS
                                               2 OK   CHOICES
                                                    2 OK   VALUES
"SHARING” IS THE COMMON FUNCTIONAL ISSUE
“EITHER-OR” IS THE COMMON DISFUNCTIONAL ISSUE
AND THE TARGET OF FORCED CHOICE IS THE ADAPTED CHILD
THESE FOLLOWING STEPS DEVELOP A TOOL TO BREAK OUT OF THE ARTIFICIAL AND TYRANNICAL POWER-PLAY TRAP OF 
“FORCED   CHOICE   -   ONLY   2   OPTIONS”