THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE BACK
 
MODIFYING   FORCED   CHOICE
 
 
 
   
   
   
   
 
 
   
THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE
 BUT now I add a 3rd choice to modify the forced choice. This gives me a
 new option to consider. But I do not have to (real or imaginary) ABANDON
 FOREVER MY SAFETY of my thinking in favor of feeling because somebody
 told me to do it. (real or imaginary-struggle for emotional comfort is still a
 control struggle)

 Now I draw another leg of a triangle with “DO”. This is for behavior -- what I
 DO about my thinking and what I DO about my feelings. How my behavior
 influences those two parts of my personality.

       (homework about behavior now becomes the issue for making small
  changes without major emotional threat -- small starts are good -- too much
                     means people quit and lose even small gains)

 Then I place another “X” between THINK and DO where I
 think-feel-believe-experience that I balance DOING with THINKING, not just
 with the forced choice of FEELING. (this is easier and fun)

 I like doing stuff and I enjoy thinking and planning equally, and I do it well.


 So I have an “X” where I have found a personal balance point about how
 much THINKING does run my life and how much DOING does run my life, on
 average, for the last year or two.