THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE BACK

 
MODIFYING   FORCED   CHOICE
 
 
 
   
   
   
   
 
 
   
THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE
 Now I have the last “X” between DO and FEEL to make an
 estimate of how I think - feel - believe - experience that DO and
 FEEL balance out , on average over a couple of years.

 I like doing stuff and I have some trouble with direct experience
 of emotions so the placement of the “X” favors the “DO” end of
 the line, just like I do THINK - FEEL placement.

 With this third issue to soften the competition I now have a new
 picture that is not about competition, but is about how :

    I relate to 3 things, without having to give up any one of them
                 I can share with another with my new found options
                          I can share in a relationship with new comfort

 Emotional security, and comfort are foundations for change.

 These provide enormous security for me in being able to explore,
 question, challenge, and test, to enjoy my change and growth
 with a lot of emotional comfort and freedom.
    And without the emotionally forced choice of only 2 options