THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE BACK

 
MODIFYING   FORCED   CHOICE
 
 
 
   
   
   
   
 
 
   
THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE
 Now I draw a line between the “X”‘s and fill in the area to make it
 stand out clearly. Now I have three areas generated by my
 choices. What do the different sized  ?mark  triangles mean ? 

 Is the largest area an opportunity for growth or a problem? Are
 they in balance ? Is that OK, normal, healthy? Does it matter -
 NO ! Use it to generate new perspective and comfort.

          
What is the meaning for me ?  New ideas and questions now.
             For me, I now have these   6 OPTIONS - NOT 2  for exploring :


               Thinking about my feelings
               Thinking about my behavior

                         Behavior based on feelings
                         Behavior based on thinking

                                   Feelings about my thinking
                                   Feelings about my behavior

 New meaning does not always come easily, nor does it often
 come quickly. I have done this exercise for many years on
 paper and with people a - way to generate new choices. I now
 use it in my head to find “THE WAY OUT” when in conflict.