3 TRANSACTION TYPES 3 TYPES BACK

   
                         TRANSACTIONS - CROSSED

 When any ego-state talks to another and the target ego-state
 DOES NOT respond, the transaction is CROSSED. It does not
 matter whether the stimulus and response are functional or
 dysfunctional.

 A common crossed-transaction occurs when a person is asked
 a question for information and they take the question as
 criticism - they will often cross the transaction with
 defensiveness or hostility, and the reverse is true as well.
STIMULUS  RESPONSE
   “What time is it?”    “Am I your mother, get a watch !’
(A to A)           (P to C)          
   “Can you talk to me now ?”    “You know I am too busy !”
(A to A)           (P to C)          
   “You are always late ! !”     “Tell me more.”
(P to C)           (A to A)          
   “You are never on time ! !”     “Will you give me 3 examples?”
(P to C)           (A to A)          
   “You never help me out ! !”     ”What can I do for you ?”
(C to P)           (A to A)