DUE ME - DO ME THE DRAMA TRIANGLE BACK

 
 
   
      NO LIMITS         NO LIMITS  
   
  NO LIMITS  
   
 
 
   
   
 
DUE-DO
 
 
 
   
 
 
   
A   SENSE   OF   ENTITLEMENT  --  ( DUE ME  -  DO ME )

                  "you owe me"
                     "I deserve . . . (you do not)
                        "I should have . . . (you should not have)
                           "I do not have to do . . . (you do)
                              "I should not have to . . .
                                 "I am above doing that"
                                    "I am entitled to . . . "
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           PROCESS - INVISIBLE - inside our head, heart, gut
           CONTENT  -    VISIBLE - seen/heard in our behavior

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 If you cannot determine whether other people have a clear sense
 of entitlement about some issue, then look at their behavior
 -- over time -- to observe their habitual use of the OK CORRAL
 positions, where they are in the DRAMA TRIANGLE, and what
 EGO-STATES: that they use, -- over time --
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Habitual use will establish a pattern. When you know patterns and have studied more TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS THEORY, you can get into trouble ---or--- stay out of trouble with equal skill.
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AN INTERESTING AND VALUABLE SKILL ALL BY ITSELF !