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BASIC
HOMEWORK - IDEAS
& FILL-INS |
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STARTING OUT |
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KEEPING
TRACK OF YOUR HOMEWORK ACHIEVEMENTS |
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HOMEWORK
IDEAS |
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NORMALIZING
THE EXPRESSION OF MAD-SAD-GLAD-SCARED |
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WHAT
TO TALK ABOUT - HOW TO LISTEN - HOW TO ASK |
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BIOGRAPHY
- SINGLE OR WITH A PARTNER |
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ENCOURAGING
PEOPLE TO TALK TO/WITH YOU |
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WHO AM I
? - SOME INVENTORY - TODAY AND CHILDHOOD |
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RELATIONSHIP
STRENGTHS |
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HELP
AND HINDRANCE - HERITAGE FROM YOUR PARENTS |
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EVALUATE
YOUR MOM AND DAD - THEIR BOUNDARIES |
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A
HANDFUL OF BOUNDARIES |
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A
HANDFUL OF BOUNDARIES - THE WORKSHEET |
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ABC
- AFFECTION / BELONGING / CONTROL |
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ABC
- AFFECTION / BELONGING / CONTROL - YOUR CHILDHOOD |
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SO
. . . WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF ? DOES THAT RUN YOUR LIFE ? |
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& W |
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COMFORT
LEVEL WITH SAYING THE WORDS - ON/OFF LIMITS - FEAR |
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DEPENDENCY
ISSUES 1 |
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25
CHARACTERISTICS OF UNRESOLVED DEPENDENCY ISSUES |
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DEPENDENCY
ISSUES 2 |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - YOUR RELATIONSHIPS - YOUR MOM & DAD |
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CONDITIONS
AND CONTRACTS - A FOUNDATION OF RELATIONSHIP |
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CONTROL
STYLES AND STRUGGLES |
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SOME
IDEAS ABOUT SELF AND OTHERS |
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& W |
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5IVE
TRUST CONTRACTS FOR COUPLES |
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POSITIVE
SELF-ESTEEM IS NOT COMFORT |
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A
FEW THINGS THAT I THINK ARE TRUE |
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5IVE
WAYS TO ENCOURAGE SPIRITUALITY FOR YOU AND CHILDREN |
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6IX
USEFUL A-B-C-D-E-F'S FOR FAST EVALUATION |
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SIGNS
OF UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES |
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DECISIONS
AND RESULTS - YOU ALWAYS HAVE 4 CHOICES ! |
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A BIT ABOUT
ANGER |
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NOTES
ON ANGER |
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7
KINDS OF ANGER - PAGE 1 |
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7
KINDS OF ANGER - PAGE 2 |
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7
KINDS OF ANGER - THE WORKSHEET - WHAT ANGER DO YOU DO ? |
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ANGER
QUIZ - WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE ? - DISCUSS WITH OTHERS |
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THE PHILOSOPHY
CORNER |
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THE
RULES FOR BEING HUMAN |
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4
ZEN STORIES - JUDGMENT - ACCEPTANCE -
UNDERSTANDING - TEA |
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AND
LAST, BUT NOT LEAST, SOME HUMOR, GO EASY WITH YOURSELF |
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PAC
- 1 |
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COLOR |
A
DOUBLE HANDFUL OF PARENT
BACK TO
TA-TUTOR "DOUBLE HANDFULS" |
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COLOR |
A
DOUBLE HANDFUL OF ADULT
BACK TO
TA-TUTOR "DOUBLE HANDFULS" |
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COLOR |
A
DOUBLE HANDFUL OF CHILD
BACK TO
TA-TUTOR "DOUBLE HANDFULS" |
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ADULT
QUESTIONS FOR RATIONAL INQUIRY |
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THE
BASICS IN CHILDHOOD |
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MY
BASIC P-A-C INTRODUCTION SUMMARY |
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BOUNDARIES-UNRESOLVED DEPENDENCY |
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COLOR |
A
HANDFUL OF BOUNDARIES |
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A
HANDFUL OF BOUNDARIES - THE WORKSHEET |
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BOUNDARY
EVALUATION - 1 |
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BOUNDARY
EVALUATION - 2 |
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SIGNS
OF UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES |
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COMPETITIVE
VS. COOPERATIVE BEHAVIORS |
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25
CHARACTERISTICS OF BOUNDARY PROBLEMS |
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CHARACTERISTICS
OF MEN & WOMEN WHO LOVE TO MUCH |
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CHARACTERISTICS
OF MEN & WOMEN WHO LOVE TO MUCH - RECOVERY |
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CHARACTERISTICS
OF ADDICTIVE RELATIONSHIPS |
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LOVE
OR ADDICTION ? - CHARACTERISTICS |
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ADDICTION
TO ANOTHER - REALITIES |
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SOME
IDEAS ABOUT SURRENDER |
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DEPENDENCY
ISSUES - 1 - THE WORKSHEET |
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DEPENDENCY
ISSUES - 2 - THE WORKSHEET |
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DEPENDENCY
ISSUES - 3 - THE WORKSHEET |
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COMMUNICATION
THEORY AND PRACTICE |
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MOTIVATION
FACTORS - MASLOW / HERZBERG |
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PERSUADE |
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DIFFERENCES
WITH / WITHOUT DISTINCTIONS - 1 |
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DIFFERENCES
WITH / WITHOUT DISTINCTIONS - 2 |
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SODIUM
BECOME HELIUM IN 5 EASY STEPS |
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COMMUNICATIONS
- FOUR STEPS TO EFFECTIVE LISTENING |
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COMMUNICATIONS
- BLOCKS TO LISTENING |
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COMMUNICATIONS
- REAL VS. PSEUDO-LISTENING |
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COMMUNICATIONS
- WHOLE VS. MIXED MESSAGES |
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COMMUNICATIONS
- 8 HIDDEN AGENDAS |
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COMMUNICATIONS
- HOW TO CHANGE HIDDEN AGENDAS |
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10
COGNITIVE TRAPS |
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1
0F 2 - DEFINING MASCULINITY AND FEMININITY |
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2
0F 2 - DEFINING MASCULINITY AND FEMININITY |
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SPEAK-UP
! WHAT TO DO - WHAT TO SAY |
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MAN
TALK - WOMEN SPEAK |
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& W |
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THE
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A BUSINESS MAN / WOMAN |
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THE
FOLLOWING WERE DEVELOPED FOR LECTURES USING OVERHEAD PROJECTION TRANSPARENCY
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COLOR |
VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 1 |
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VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 2 |
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COLOR |
VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 3 |
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VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 4 |
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COLOR |
VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 5 |
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VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 6 |
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VISUAL
ILLUSIONS AS COMMUNICATION METAPHORS - 7 |
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THE FOLLOWING SHOW HOW 2
PEOPLE MAY HAVE DIFFERENT IMAGES AND MEANINGS FOR THE SAME WORD
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BALL - 1 |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BALL - 2 |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BIKE - 1 |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BIKE - 2 |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BIKE - 3 |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - SUPPORT |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - MOLEST |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BASTARD |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - BITCH |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - SHOOT |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - FAMILY |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - DANCE - 1 |
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COLOR |
COMMUNICATION
THEORY - DANCE- 2 |
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COMMUNICATION
THEORY - MULTIPLE IMAGES |
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COMMUNICATION
THEORY - SEX LIFE - 1 |
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COMMUNICATION
THEORY - SEX LIFE - 2 |
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IDEAS
ABOUT LIFE |
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SOME
IDEAS ABOUT LIFE |
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DIGNITY |
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PREMISE
- ASSUMPTION - TRUTH - ? |
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4
STORIES FOR PERSPECTIVE |
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MY
DECLARATION OF SELF-ESTEEM - VIRGINIA SATIR |
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THE
FIVE FREEDOMS - VIRGINIA SATIR |
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RULES
FOR BEING HUMAN |
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PARTING
WITH ILLUSIONS |
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GOLDEN
RULES |
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RISK |
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10
BASIC RULES OF MONEY MANAGEMENT |
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AUTOBIOGRAPHY
IN 5IVE SHORT CHAPTERS |
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CHILDREN
LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE |
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PERSONAL
BILL OF RIGHTS |
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KEEPING
YOUR EMOTIONAL DISTANCE / THE UNHOOKING LIST |
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KINDERGARTEN
WAS GOOD TO YOU |
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THINGS
THAT WE CAN LEARN FROM A DOG |
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SOME
IDEAS ABOUT SEXUALITY |
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A
QUINBY
QUADRANT - DECISIONS & RESULTS |
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LOVE
AND GARBAGE |
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JOHARI
WINDOW |
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NOTES
ON LOVE |
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IDEAS
& LISTS ABOUT
RELATIONSHIPS |
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TO INDEX |
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RELATIONSHIP
RULES |
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5IVE
TRUST CONTRACTS FOR COUPLES |
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THE
BUSINESS MEETING FOR RELATIONSHIPS |
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HOW
TO MAKE RELATIONSHIPS WORK - 5 C's |
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D-IRS
D-CIA D-FBI |
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HOW
YOU CAN USE D-IRS TO HELP A FRIEND |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - MOM & DAD HERITAGE |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - MOM & DAD RULES FOR ISSUES |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - A FAST A-B-C-D-E-F TO EVALUATE |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - KELLY'S LIST TO EVALUATE A PARTNER |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - JD'S LIST TO EVALUATE A PARTNER |
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PICKING
A PARTNER - WHAT LARRY WANTS IN A PARTNER |
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WHAT
KEEPS A MARRIAGE GOING ? |
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WHAT
KEEPS A FRIENDSHIP GOING ? |
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DO YOU
KNOW HOW OTHERS SEE YOU ? |
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2
EXERCISES IN TALKING AND LISTENING |
|
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NORMALIZING
THE EXPRESSION OF MAD-SAD-GLAD-SCARED |
|
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WHAT
TO TALK ABOUT - HOW TO LISTEN |
|
B & W |
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CRITICAL
COUPLES CUESTIONS |
|
B & W |
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CONDITIONS
& CONTRACTS |
|
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AFFECTION
- BELONGING - CONTROL - THE BASIC ABC'S |
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HOMEWORK |